A talk that I gave at the Strings 2020 conference: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u73rsTpnPrY Since the Strings-conference audience is very broad, it was intended for people who are not directly thinking about the same questions, and provides a quick summary of some of our recent work. So the video may be useful.
We had a long panel discussion on Black Hole information later, which capped off the conference. But, I should mention that we also discussed similar issues at the BH microstructure conference last month with some of the same panelists. (Bena, de Boer, Maldacena, Mathur and me.) The emphasis was slightly different because the question there was “Do typical states have horizons?” but I think that discussion was also interesting. It is available here: https://youtu.be/31f_2G5DLaw?t=11367